Consistency Is The Key, But How Do I Unlock It? by Michelle D. Howe

Have you ever tried to unlock a door and thought you had the right key but realized it didn’t work?  Why won’t this work?  Where do I get the right key and how do I use it? 

While working on my 2012 goals, I realized they required an attribute that has not been my strong suit in the past. 

CONSISTENCY!!!

The Free Dictionary.com defines consistent as (of a person, behavior, or process) unchanging in achievement or effect over a period of time. 

Consistent to me means:

              To stay on course

                       To create lasting daily habits

                               To be persistent in action

Change is what I know and what I like.  Change is something that I thrive on. The challenge is if I’m constantly changing, I’m not doing anything long enough to create new habits for lasting results. 

Some areas I choose to work on is as follows:

  • Exercise – I tend to be driven by a goal with a deadline. I’ll put the hard work in for a while but not in a consistent effort once the goal is finished.  I choose to consistent in exercising 4 or more times a week.
  • Finances – What is a budget anyway?  This is an area of struggle and it causes unnecessary stress in my marriage. I choose to be consistent in creating a monthly budget and follow through on tracking the expenses.
  • Prayer – I do pray daily but not so good before a meal or with my husband. I tend to keep my prayer life more personal but that keeps me from expressing to others my need for God.  I choose to be consistent in praying at each meal and with my family out loud.
  • Writing -  For sometime, It has been a goal of mine to write a book. The blog certainly has helped me get into a habit of writing but a book is quite a bit longer and takes a bigger commitment to complete. I choose to be consistent in writing 3 or more days a week.

A consistent effort is not about self-effort because I certainly can not do this on my own.  Creating new thoughts, actions, habits requires an accountability and reliability on something bigger than myself.   

Deuteronomy 30:19-20 says, “Today I have given you the choice between life and death, between blessings and curses. Now I call on heaven and earth to witness the choice you make. Oh, that you would choose life, so that you and your descendants might live! You can make this choice by loving the Lord your God, obeying him, and committing yourself firmly to him. This is the key to your life.

Without choosing God as the key to my life, I cannot achieve any of my goals.  With God as the key, He can open up doors to possibilities I cannot even imagine. 

Have you thought about what attributes it will take to reach your goals this year?  Consider the Godly character within you from the Holy Spirit.  God is the same yesterday, today and tomorrow.  He is the King and the key to create consistency in your daily life. 

I woke up yesterday and opened the door to an even bigger God!!!

  • http://iwokeupyesterday.com iwokeupyesterday

    this is a great post michelle, you inspire me to be more consistent!!
    tammy

    • http://iwokeupyesterday.com iwokeupyesterday

      Thanks Ms. Tammy! Love how God is constantly creating new challenges for me to go even deeper with Him. Michelle :-)

  • Lisa Scacco

    MORE encouraging words! You ladies are never ending with your inspiring words! Thank you!!!

    • http://iwokeupyesterday.com iwokeupyesterday

      Thanks Lisa! We love sharing what God is doing in us. Sometimes hard but always worth it. :-)

  • Edda Ragnarsdottir

    Thank you sooooooo much Tammy for posting this.
    It was just what I needed to read and think about……. consistency…… what have I done with that in my life as of late ?
    Yes, I was consistent in all that I had to do for my mother for the past five years before her passing and now I feel that my next task is to do the same for my father………and all of that is good and fine but am I being consistent in my daily walk with my Lord …No .:(
    Even though I pray to Him and talk to Him I feel that I am doing it all in a hurry and that needs to change, He has brought me through so much and Blessed me so much…. He DESERVES so much more of my time and more than that I NEED that much MORE of HIM.
    Time for a change and return to the Love that is greater than any I can give to my family or my family can give me ….HIS LOVE.

    Edda

    • http://iwokeupyesterday.com iwokeupyesterday

      Hi Edda,
      We are starting a bible study online for our blog and life coaching business. Send me your email or sign up on our business page at http://www.everydaylifeline.com and we will send you the information when it starts.
      We all have one day…i pray today, you can be consistent and seek those things that will grow you closer to God and those you love!
      Love you,
      Tammy

  • http://ourlovelyhaven.blogspot.com/ Bridget Howe

    You can do it!!!!! Good Luck!!! I would love to exercise with you at least once a week, maybe evening walks or something like that!!!

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